Love and Lifestyle


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I am a very passionate man and love intimacy. I am also loyal, loving, fair, kind, patient, sensitive and honorable. I make rational, long term choices, with consideration being made to my lovers own wishes, as well. I try to help and support my lover whenever possible, so long as they want that support. I enjoy the attention of my partner, and likewise enjoy activities with them, and working as a team towards a common goal.

Currently my thoughts are that I am likely best described as a sensible Hedonist (a person who is devoted to the pursuit of pleasure - within the confines of being pure and clean about it - i.e. avoiding unhealthy pleasures), whom is Demisexual (demisexuality is a sexual orientation in which someone feels sexual attraction only to people with whom they have an emotional bond - which in turn means I am not looking for hookups or casual fun).

This section deals mainly with posts about love, and relationships. Any posts involving discussions of a sexual nature, will be restricted to registered members only. Please be respectful of these posts, as they are from the heart often. We are always, constantly changing and evolving emotionally to our environment. Ideals, and expectations change over time. Please note, that older posts may not reflect what my current thoughts may be.

Lifestyle Themed Posts

This page displays a number of Lifestyle themed posts, which are for registered users only.

Popular or special pages:

  • Sarah McLachlan's Sweet Surrender - an exploration of this musical masterpiece and what it means.
  • Erotica - a collection of erotica writings and stories (both fiction and non-fiction).
  • Passion and Intimacy - This post explores the need for such things in our lives.
  • Non-Monogamy - A post about the various forms of non-monogamy. I wrote this because some non-monogamy situations seem to be highly misunderstood (even by those who claim to practice them). That being said, it is something I no longer wish to practice. But it is a good reference for any of those who do still practice it.
  • Jealousy in Polyamory
  • More Personal or Self Reflective Posts:

  • Barn Fire and Other Thoughts. - A rather long post, where I try to ground my thoughts on the events which happened in late 2014 with my friends Tailz, and Sable.
  • What I am Seeking in a Partner - An outline I wrote when trying to figure out what or who I seek in a new relationship.
  • Courting and Dabbling - Why things sometimes don't work out...
  • Murder of One - A great song by the Counting Crows. The lyrics have spoken to me at times.
  • Zoar Valley Weekend - A small post describing a fun weekend. Kept only for memory sake.
  • The (real) Rescue
  • Early Adulthood Experiences
  • An Adventure Begins- A series of posts detailing the events in my life (i.e. Sable) between 2018 and 2020. A interesting story, but for registered members only as it does include intimate details and nudity.